Funny
Wedding Speech
Simultaneously witty and humorous, funny wedding speeches are
not an easy thing to write. Many times, people who have a great
sense of humor are not good writers and vice versa. You need to
find someone with a combination of wit and humor who can, at the
same time, write.
Funny wedding speeches when pull off correctly can be very memorable
for years to come. Other times, nerves get in the way. The fact
is that there are two or three hundred guests looking at you with
high expectations regarding what you have to say and this is not
for the faint of heart.
In addition, there is etiquette you need to follow when creating
a wedding speech. You should not just stand up and say random
things you think of on the day itself. The key to a great speech
is preparation. Information about wedding etiquette is also available
from your favorite bookstore or online.
The first thing to remember when creating funny wedding speeches
is that you need to thank the significant people of the wedding.
This needs to be included in the introduction. Thank everyone
that matters. This includes the people who helped do the preparations
like the cake and the dress. Next comes the hard part. A speech
that will truly please the crowd will need to involve humor. This
will take some research on your part.
After the introduction comes the body of the speech. You can
find out what the sentimental moments of the groom and the bride
have been, as well as the funny events that led them to each other.
Include all the fun experiences that both the bride and groom
term as 'unforgettable' within their marriage and courtship stages.
Unless the bride and groom and audience enjoy needling humor,
stay away from this (Think Jay Leno instead of David Letterman).
You can put about five different events that occurred between
the bride and the groom. Humorous and sentimental events will
no doubt make for funny wedding speeches. Be sure not to overshadow
the humor with the sentiments because you are going for laughter
and not tears as a response, preferably.
If you are a groomsman, make sure to avoid stories about the
groom that are left between both of you. Remember to keep privacy
and trust in tact as you don't want to burn any bridges at the
wedding. You may think something is extremely funny and is worth
telling two hundred people, but the bride and her family may not
think so.
End your speech with a statement of wishing or blessing for the
couple. The important thing to keep in mind is that there is no
need for you to have any fears. This is because there are many
who have gone before you with funny wedding speeches that have
been successful, regardless of what the speech giver thought initially.
Remember that this day is about the bride and groom and even if
you muff your speech this won't be the focus of the day only a
small part of many events.
Funny wedding speeches are a craft that have been developed over
many years. For this reason, you need to ask the couple to give
you enough time and information to create a speech especially
since this is something you should not do at the last minute for
it to be successful.
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